There’s this traditional conditioning that the woman serves the man. Stereotypical example: the woman makes the man dinner so that it’s ready when he comes home from work.
Cut away the trauma & conditioning…& what’s left is two people…one person has a desire to flow energy & does. The other person has a desire to receive energy & does.
When the flow is unrestricted, the experience is elevating & enriching.
When the flow is resisted or disrespected, the person flowing the energy either stops flowing it or tries another approach (& another until they give up).
Many enjoy serving their partner (in whatever way inspires them). What people enjoy more than that, is a person who can receive what they give.
Some of my most loving exchanges of energy with my partners where when they received with passion, expressed their satisfaction, & wanted more.
A lot of men say “I want a woman who takes care of me/the home/the family”….but their response to service says otherwise.
Men, when a woman serves you, have you ever…
😣avoided her
😣thought “she’s clingy”
😣thought “she’s moving too fast”
😣thought “she’s desperate”
😣felt uncomfortable
😣said “I don’t need anything from you”
😣completely ignored her
😣felt unworthy
😣felt like you needed to earn it
😣felt like you owe her something in return
If your answer is a “yes” to any of those, there’s an opportunity to shift your core beliefs & become more receptive.
As I have experienced more & more love in my life, I realize that so many of the things I desired from a partner & thought were amazing things, were actually just the baseline. If you desire your partner to serve you in a particular way, that is your baseline, not a bonus. In order for you to attract that, it needs to feel that way to you.
And not in some entitled, douchy way, from a place of deeply understanding & accepting yourself & appreciating a partner who exhibits the traits you desire.
